Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Being a Natural vs. Being a Social Robot


Contrary to what most men believe, seduction is about so much more than saying a few magic lines to a woman and having them jump right into the sack. The game of seduction is far more complex than that. Unfortunately, this is what the “seduction community” has been reduced to because of marketers' efforts to sell you rehashed products that never really work.

Believe me, I bought most of the products out there on the market: ebooks, piles of CD and I even went to some seminars… What’s their recipe?  Apparently, as a “Master PUA”, you have to demonstrate to all the guys out there who paid for your products that you can throw down hilarious lines on demand. Then you have to mix in an outrageous individual style. In other words, if you are a seduction guru, your job is basically to seduce your audience. These are just “feel good about yourself” products that temporally inflate your ego. Whether women really respond to what is taught is really of secondary importance.

But let’s take a closer look at what they’re selling. The so called seduction “gurus” bulk up their products with LOTS of content, most of which is of no relevance whatsoever. Hours and hours of constant blabbering, which means you have to stick around longer with the promise of learning more “secrets”. That’s right, they have more products to sell.

Some of them are so full of psycho-babble that it makes you think the “guru” is actually trying to confuse his buyers. Well, they claim to use psychology, but it’s mostly junk science, misinterpreted.
Let’s go back to my favorite: the pick-up “routines”, and their fancy “strategies”. Sure they work, for the first 5 minutes at least. But what happens when you run out of things to say, what happens when you run out of your routines? More books, more seminars, more tricks? I don’t think so…

One more question: do you have a strategy for every type of girl there is out there? Yeah, I know what they told you: it will work for every single woman. But be careful with the “strategies”; most women are used to being approached, they can smell this stuff from miles away. They can sense it in your uncomfortable body language, stammering voice and wandering eyes…

Ok, ok, enough with the bullshit. If you want to be a parrot, a PUA wannabe, a mimic of your favorite guru, a social robot – then that’s your choice. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll score couple of times. But that’s it…

However, if you want to be really successful with women, well my friend, that’s another story. I’m going to tell you the secret upfront: if you want to seduce women you need to become a natural…
Imagine if you had the personality that was so charismatic, calm and confident in any social situation that you simply didn’t care what other people thought of you.

How about changing yourself internally, so that instead of becoming a social robot, you come across as a NATURAL!

I’ve taken the ideas, beliefs and mindsets that make the difference between a sexually abundant pick-up artist and the average frustrated male - and I've transformed them into hypnotic suggestions that install themselves automatically within your neurology. Simple as that.

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