How to Destroy Your Crippling Fear And Finally Seduce Women

It is your regular Saturday night out at the local bar or club. You are hanging with your friends, chatting and laughing, and not really caring about much. You go to dance floor and start scanning the room. And then you see her, 5 feet away, dancing with her friends. The room lights up.

You make eye contact... 4 seconds.

Those lips, those eyes, her body moving just at the right beat... 3 seconds.

She's really something... 2 seconds.

You need to know who she is, if she’s willing to... 1 second.

But then she turns and walks right towards you. You know what you need to do. She walks by and you can almost smell her. It's time. You try to open your mouth but something is holding you back. You can’t find a thing to say, you put your head in the ground and you simply freeze.

She keeps walking... and then she's gone.

How many times has this happened to you? How many times did you find excuses and said to yourself: next time I will do it, or: she wasn’t my type anyway…

If you can't approach a woman, you're pretty much guaranteed to fail at seducing them.
We all have fears in our life. There are some things that are a little scary and then there are others that when we even just consider confronting them, we experience paralyzing fear.

But can fear ever really be paralyzing? Can fear ever really stop you from doing anything?
I need you to stop for a second and think back to a time when you were afraid of doing something... but then you did it anyway. Remember the first time you dived in the water and learned to swim, the first time you drove a car or maybe you even jumped from an airplane… Was it scary? I bet it was! But were you able to act despite your fear? Yes, you were.

How are women scarier then any of those situations I’ve mentioned? You’re mind deals with fear in the same way if it’s walking through fire or kissing a girl for the first time.

I’m sure you’ve already been here: the first time you approached a girl you really liked, or the first time you asked a girl for her phone number, first time you lent in for a kiss.

So the next time your approach anxiety is crippling, feel that sensation fully in your body, and then ask yourself: What do I stand to gain by acting and what do I stand to lose?"

There is a quote that goes something like "the only real failure is not trying".

All you need is to get your confidence back. And that’s where I can help you.

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How to Clinch Your Inner Game

Take a look at yourself in the mirror. That’s right take a good hard look at the MAN you see in front of you. What do you see? Do you see yourself as an average, boring guy, a clumsy person? If that’s the case then give yourself couple of big slaps. If that’s how you see yourself, then you can be absolutely sure that people around you won’t see you any differently.

A man full of self-doubt will be absolutely consumed by fear when he first makes an opening line to a woman. The self-doubt works to weaken every man that does not have that natural self-assurance that must be developed before approaching a hot girl.

No, you’re not hopeless. On the contrary, you’re just taking the same dead end path that I, and many others have taken before you. You simply need to reprogram your inner beliefs and that’s exactly why I’m here, to guide you through the process.  I will show you how to work on your inner game.

You have to realize that much of your success with women depends on your confidence far more than on your techniques. One more important thing: your real seductive values are more than skin deep and they certainly should not depend on your external appearance. Remember that confidence and sense of humor is a lot sexier to women than looks and money, especially in the long-term.

Your best option is simply to be yourself. You’ve probably heard this many times. Easy to say, hard to do. But hang on…

Once you understand that your core personality, moral principles, and strong values are what really matter, the way you look, talk and act will be deeply affected. The change starts from the inside and will shape each action you make. You'll find yourself oozing confidence wherever you go when you finally clinch your inner game.

How about your talent, your special something? Believe me we all have something different that sets us apart from the guy sitting next to you. Just make sure you’re really passionate about it and she will share your hobby/obsession right away. Women feed on emotions, be genuine about it and they will adore you.

So, are you great with your guitar? Do you love your Chevrolet Infinity? Or are you a creative bartender?

Whatever it is, we all have our own strong points, and that's what is most attractive to women. Make sure you build upon them. 

The most important asset you must maintain at all times is your personal confidence, integrity, and a charismatic personality. Developing your "inner game" takes some theory and a lot of practice. As I’ve mentioned before, you'll need to know who you are and what you want out of life.

Working on your charismatic personality isn’t as hard as it seems. In fact I’ve created a program that reprograms your personality and allows you to clinch your inner game once and for all using a fast and simple method: hypnosis. It’s been around for centuries, and it gives amazing results.

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Being a Natural vs. Being a Social Robot

Contrary to what most men believe, seduction is about so much more than saying a few magic lines to a woman and having them jump right into the sack. The game of seduction is far more complex than that. Unfortunately, this is what the “seduction community” has been reduced to because of marketers' efforts to sell you rehashed products that never really work.

Believe me, I bought most of the products out there on the market: ebooks, piles of CD and I even went to some seminars… What’s their recipe?  Apparently, as a “Master PUA”, you have to demonstrate to all the guys out there who paid for your products that you can throw down hilarious lines on demand. Then you have to mix in an outrageous individual style. In other words, if you are a seduction guru, your job is basically to seduce your audience. These are just “feel good about yourself” products that temporally inflate your ego. Whether women really respond to what is taught is really of secondary importance.

But let’s take a closer look at what they’re selling. The so called seduction “gurus” bulk up their products with LOTS of content, most of which is of no relevance whatsoever. Hours and hours of constant blabbering, which means you have to stick around longer with the promise of learning more “secrets”. That’s right, they have more products to sell.

Some of them are so full of psycho-babble that it makes you think the “guru” is actually trying to confuse his buyers. Well, they claim to use psychology, but it’s mostly junk science, misinterpreted.
Let’s go back to my favorite: the pick-up “routines”, and their fancy “strategies”. Sure they work, for the first 5 minutes at least. But what happens when you run out of things to say, what happens when you run out of your routines? More books, more seminars, more tricks? I don’t think so…

One more question: do you have a strategy for every type of girl there is out there? Yeah, I know what they told you: it will work for every single woman. But be careful with the “strategies”; most women are used to being approached, they can smell this stuff from miles away. They can sense it in your uncomfortable body language, stammering voice and wandering eyes…

Ok, ok, enough with the bullshit. If you want to be a parrot, a PUA wannabe, a mimic of your favorite guru, a social robot – then that’s your choice. Maybe, just maybe, you’ll score couple of times. But that’s it…

However, if you want to be really successful with women, well my friend, that’s another story. I’m going to tell you the secret upfront: if you want to seduce women you need to become a natural…
Imagine if you had the personality that was so charismatic, calm and confident in any social situation that you simply didn’t care what other people thought of you.

How about changing yourself internally, so that instead of becoming a social robot, you come across as a NATURAL!

I’ve taken the ideas, beliefs and mindsets that make the difference between a sexually abundant pick-up artist and the average frustrated male - and I've transformed them into hypnotic suggestions that install themselves automatically within your neurology. Simple as that.

5 Simple Steps That Will Make You a Real Man

Look, seducing a woman does not have to be some silly, pre-set routine or a stupid set of gimmicks you picked up from some book. It's more about knowing how to trigger her interest and making her feel like YOU are the man that she needs to experience things with.

It's one thing to know how to get a woman’s attention. Any guy can get dressed up, and style his hair nicely to make women notice him. But that’s only one minor part of the game, and it’s far from the whole story. The ultimate goal is seduction. The ability to seduce women is what separates wussies from real men. Showing your interest, flirting shamelessly, using body language: these are all ingredients that make the thrill of the hunt so fun.

So let’s look at the things that really matter when it comes to seducing women:

1. Confidence – it’s the most crucial thing you have to gain in order to be successful in the game of seduction. A woman can tell just by instincts whether or not you are really a confident guy. That’s right she can smell that shit 10000 miles away – it’s in her DNA.  So don’t think too much about what to do, instead just relax and see what happens.

The most important advice: live in the moment. Enjoy what happens, not just the conversation with the girl, but the whole fun of having her around you. That's when the seduction occurs...when you're not looking for it. Control your emotions and simply go with the flow.

When women see you're calm, cool, collected and fun, that’s precisely when they're turned on the most!

2. Appearance - When you get ready to go out to meet her, make sure you look and smell your best.  Believe me you don’t have to be Brad Pitt to be successful with women. That’s right - for a woman looks are not as important as they are for us guys. Just make sure that your clothes look good and that you are well groomed and smell halfway decent. It will show you care and it will make them feel important.

3. Body language – once again women have a 6th sense when it comes to reading signs. They can read you like an open book. It doesn’t mean you have to be paranoid about it, instead just impose your presence. It's really important to sit up straight and have your shoulders back. You want to convey confidence and control as much as you can. Make sure you always maintain eye contact and most importantly, smile.

4.  Being 'Cocky and Funny': Throw in some sarcasm when talking to her.  This works best with women with distinguished social value who are not used to this type of approach.  It will set you apart. Be careful – there is a limit to all of this: overdo it and they will be offended. Sense of humor is one of the top ways to attract women.  Make her laugh and half of your work is done.

5.  Make her feel sexual desire: Seduction is not about trying to make her like you, it's about being the guy that she cannot resist. So get to know the girl...tell her what you like about her. Then start talking sexually: make allusions, and sneak in comments about how good you are in bed. The first step towards having sex, is talking about it.

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